Loneliness and solitude are the terms often mistaken one for the other as they seems to be quite similar .
Loneliness is not just about being alone,but a feeling of not being loved.
So let us understand the reasons why we often left with the feeling of Loneliness.
1. Why am I Lyk this??
Yes! Why am I Lyk this??
A question most of the people keep asking themselves and cries for ,not being able to accept themselves and often left comparing themselves with others developing an inferiority complex ,and isolate themselves from the world with a notion of being judged and being laughed at.
Develop a tendency to shut themselves up in a room and avoid socializing and all they have is a mobile phone to rely on.
2. Seeking Attention
Yaahhh! We all love attention right .
It make us bloom when being recieved from the person we seek for.
If not left inflated like a hot air balloon thinking all the day “how come she/he did this to me” and irritated the whole day waiting somebody to pin the balloon and have a blast.
3) Expectations Hurts!
Expecting love and care from someone special is all that we all want Right .Yaaah after all it is the most beautiful thing which we can experience but if it not gone our way
“Nobody loves me Nobody cares even if I die one day” is all that we have to say.
4. Being too choosy
Having a habit of Choosing people and things before giving them place in your life.
Yaa! I am one of them and thus often left alone.
“They are not my type”, ” I just don’t like ” is all have to say.
5. Confused & Copy cat
People nowadays are not contented with what they have and always seeks for the things what others have .
Most of us have no plans ,no goals to work on for and thus left confused and lonely ,busy in copying others and last fail as question papers were not same . yaahhh you knew it right still copied .
We all have a different clock and every things take time.
So understood na ??
Now thinking of getting out of it???
I Guess you all are aware,but too lazy and stubborn to try them out.
Just begin with loving and caring yourself .Do the things what you expected others to do for you .
Just treat yourself the way you have treated the person you are in love with.
Try out to be adaptive for a while then choosy people can’t change themselves completely just becoz you want them to.
Stop expecting, start doing .
Please don’t do anything for Expectations but for satisfaction.
Spend time with yourself ,work upon yourself,start appreciating things and grow slowly.
Make short terms goals achieve them .Make your own worth
Surrounding people is not the way to cut loneliness , Surrounding quality people which make you feel loved or you making them feel loved without any expectations is what is seeked for.
Once you start enjoying your company and develop sense of self love and sharing and giving others is what you embrace SOLITUDE.
Hope you all loved it! Thank you.
Know Your Body 